Signs He Is Into You.. ;)

Memule skali la kan, ade la kengkawan tanye aku, acano nak tao kalu laki tu betoi2 suke kat kite? ahah! Yela...mak kan ade banyak experience... Da mcm mak hayam pulak bunyiknye kan3?? -_-".. Okay.. Malas nak bebel lebiy... Korang2.. Sile bace ape yg tertulis tertaip di bawah...

#1: (Calling-mengalling) Bile laki shuke kat engkorang, die pastinye akan call bile die berkate2 seperti ini, "I'll call u tonight..Just wait for my call okeh.." Xkan adenye esok, luse or tulat or any excuses... Time tu gak la die akan call.. No worries..

#2: (Melepak) Die akan bawak engkorang gie melepak kat mane2 je. Keselaluannye, xde istilah ur place or his place.. Any tempat yg baru or biasanya dipenuhi orang sebab kalo ramai orang means tempat tu besttt.. If it's always your place or his, you might be in a friends with benefits relationship. Da name pun tempat melepak kan... 'Lepak' dan 'Dating' adalah satu istilah yang berlainan yer wahai kawan2ku sekalian..

#3: (Soal-menyoal) Laki tu akan selalu tanye pasal engkorang.. "How's ur day? How's ur life?" etc..etc.. 

#4: (Jemput-menjemput) He takes you out and is willing to pick you up, you don't have to drive to see him always.. Yeah..he's a man..

#5: (Friends and family) Lelaki itu akan nak sangat bawak engkorang jumpe and kenal2 ngan kengkawan and family die dan begitu jugalah sebaliknya... Just want to move on to the next step in having a real relationship.. Percayalah! Jangan nak segan2 pulak time tu okeh! Sekeh nnt..

#6: (Ayat manis) Not tryng to be a sweet talker! But puji-memuji tu pasti akan ada.. Yerp! He'll compliments you and seems proud of you seperti berkata, "U cantik sgt... Comel sgt... Montel Gebu sgt..." dan sebagainye..

#7: (Rajenkan diri) Die akan mule menjadi sangat ringan tulang dengan mengofferkan diri to help you with things, change a light bulb, look at your tires, add a quart of oil <-- Contoh sahaja okeh.. 

#8: (SMS) He will message u at random..Just to say 'Hi'..

#9: (Usik-mengusik) Lelaki itu akan menjadi sangat suke mengusik korang.. Teasing.. Sumtimes bullying.. It just to have fun.. Relationship without all these things rase macam x cukup rempah je bagi mereka.. So take it easy okeh.. Korang balas balik je if berkesempatan..;p

#10: (Rindu tahap dewa) Diorang akan sentiasa rasa nak jumpe korang padahal baru je brape minit yang lalu kua sesame.. Haha! Perkara biase la tu.. Engkorang pun same gak godik..

Dan macam-macam lagi! Nak list satu2 memang panjang.. xde kederat da haa nak menaip lagi.. So, if ade di kalangan kengkawang lelaki engkkorang yang suke kt korang or mana2 lelakilah yang buat perkara2 di atas, maknenye die ngah tangkap cintan or lebih spesifiknye ngah angau ngan engkoranglah tu.. Last but not least, nak bagitao korang 1 perkara.. Sile refer ayat2 di bawah nie yerk..

Lelaki nie ade banyak perbezaan.. So jangan samekan mereka on certain things okey.. But nak gtao gak.. Dorang ade types2 of girls in their lives. They have the 'friends with benefits.' Ini ialah jenis pompuan yang they have sex with that will never make it to girlfriend status, well because sang gadis itu settled for less and didn't demand more. Friends with benefits sangat merugikan sebab akan menyebabkan lebih banyak sakit ati dari riang ati..

Then there is the 'filler girl.' A girl they do like, but don't see themselves in a relationship with. Dorang suke kat pompuan nie akan tetapi there's something about her does not inspire him to move her to girlfriend role. She is only filling a position and giving him something to do until he finds someone more interesting.

The last girl is the 'girlfriend.' This is the one he adores and can't wait to see. This is the one you want to be. This girl has done something or there is just something about her that inspires him to take her off the market and claim her as his own. If he is into you, chances are good, he has made you his girlfriend.. Tahniah!

Okeh abes da.. Uiii penatnyeee menaipppp... Sekian, terima kasih..

Terasa hati...

Terbaca satu artikel nie yang membebel pasal nie:

"Alam percintaan sememangnya menarik namun sekiranya tidak bijak menyesuaikan diri dengan perangai dan sikap pasangan masing-masing, besar kemungkinan hubungan akan menjadi hambar. Sewaktu proses perkenalan, mungkin setiap individu cuba mencari cara untuk mengenali diri pasangan terlebih dahulu. Mungkin masa yang diperlukan agak singkat, mungkin juga masa yang diperlukan begitu lama. Segalanya terpulang kepada hati masing-masing. Dalam percintaan, sikap saling percaya dan bertolak ansur begitu penting. Sekiranya seorang daripada pasangan kekasih gagal memenuhi sikap-sikap tersebut, hubungan mungkin akan mula menjadi tegang.... Namun, setelah hubungan menjangkau 1 bulan, lelaki akan mula mengurangkan sikap romantiknya. Hal ini menyebabkan perempuan berasa tersinggung dengan perubahan yang terjadi dalam diri lelaki. Sebenarnya, apa yang perlu diketahui perempuan ialah sikap sebenar lelaki kesayangannya telah muncul. Sekiranya, pada awal perkenalan sewaktu perempuan belum sah menjadi kekasih lelaki, lelaki sentiasa menghantar SMS atau berjumpa dengannya namun setelah beberapa bulan, lelaki akan mula berdiam diri dan mengelak daripada berjumpa. Jangan salah faham. Itulah sikap sebenar lelaki. Mereka memang sayangkan kekasih namun mereka lebih suka bersikap realistik dan tidak cuba untuk menjadi plastik. Namun, hanya pada awal perkenalan sahaja, sikap plastik mereka akan terserlah.... Sebenarnya, lelaki tidak harus mengabaikan kekasihnya. Sikap romantik sewaktu awal perkenalan tidak harus diketepikan. Sikap tersebut perlu diteruskan sehingga ke akhir hayat. Percayalah, perempuan akan sentiasa menyukai dan menyintai diri lelaki sekiranya sikap lelaki tidak berubah. Bagi perempuan pula, jangan terlalu memaksa diri lelaki untuk memahami diri anda. Lelaki dengan hidupnya dan gayanya yang tersendiri, perempuan pula dengan hidupnya dan gayanya. Namun, walaupun gaya dan hidup yang berbeza, lelaki dan perempuan boleh hidup dengan bahagia sekiranya wujud sikap saling menyayangi antara satu sama lain. Jadi, di sini, lebih baik perempuan cuba mengikis sikap mudah terasa hati dengan lelaki sekiranya anda ingin hubungan anda berkekalan."

Ape kene-mengenenye ngan aku? Haha! Bese la pompuan.. Cepat sensitip.. N aku pulak terlalu paranoid dengan apa yang pernah berlaku dulu.. Juz like the article said, kene kikis sikap mudah terasa hati and banyakkan bersabar je.. Jangan terlalu fikirkan sangat.. Then everything will be fine.. I know he loves me.. Chill babe! Go Nia!

Sentimentalism / Love ???

Arinie…….. nak cerita pasal SENTIMENTAL…ape tuh sentiment? Sentimental? Sakit mental?? Apa itu love and ape2 yang sama waktu dengannya. So kawan2! Let’s check it out!

SENTIMENTALISM, or in other words, romantic longing, makes itself known most often under the guise of “love”. For example, the romantic nationalists claim to love their country, for which reason they are hostile or even aggressive towards other nations. Or, we may consider a young man in love with a girl whom he turns into the sole focus of his life: what leads him to write her poetry saying “I Love You”, and to become obsessed with her to the point of suicide, and, in fact, to “divinize” her, is the notion of “love”.

Bibirku tanpa sedar mengukir senyum sumbing. Ecewahh.. Dah macam hikayat ala-ala Laila Majnun, Romeo Juliet ler pulok kan.. Sanggup meredah lautan api dan bercerai badan dan nyawa.. Hurmm..~ Interesting! Okeh sambung lagi..

As for the majority of people, they think that every emotion to which the name of “love” is ascribed is virtuous, pure, and even holy, and that examples of romantic longing, such as what we have mentioned above, are perfectly acceptable.

Yeah! betol3.. Kenyataan dalam dunia zaman sekarang nie..

Love is indeed a wonderful emotion, accorded to humanity by God, but it is important to distinguish whether that love is real or not, and to consider who it is directed to, and what sentiments it is founded on.

Hurmm…macam mana tu agak2 ek??

Such investigation should make apparent the difference between a sentimentalism that leads to perverse love, and real love, as revealed to us by God in the Quran. These issues we will examine in this book. But first, by way of preliminary information, let us give the meaning of love as it founded in the Quran.

Okey.. Go on..

According to Quran, love is to be shown to those who deserve it. Those who do not deserve it are not to be loved. We are even to distance ourselves from them emotionally or, at least, to not feel inclined towards them. But those who deserve love deserve it because of their virtue. The only being who deserves absolute love is God, who created us all. God brought us into existence; proffered us with the countless blessings we enjoy, showed us the way, and promised us an everlasting paradise. He helps us out of every anxiety and graciously hears our every call. It is He who feeds us until we are satisfied, cures us when we are ill and then restores our spirits.

Dan hanya orang2 yang cetek pemikiran je yang akan rasa cinta antara lelaki dan perempuan tu are almost everything. Kalau berkecai yang itu, tanda berkecailah dunia. Manusia…memang kadang2 lupa. Hurm..tak terkecuali aku.. Syukur Alhamdulillah.. Tuhan masih sayangkan aku.. Masih punya kesempatan untuk kembali bangkit meneruskan hidup dengan semangat baru..hidup baru..suasana baru..dan….pakwe baru. Eheeheeh~ Putus cinta antara lelaki dan perempuan bukanlah penamat segala2nya kan.. So? Have chill la babeh.. Tuhan tu Maha Adil lagi Bijaksana.. Dia yang menentukan perjalanan hidup kita. So pe lagi kan.. Live! Life! Laugh! Laaaa.. Ngeehehe~ and of course, most of all.. Beribadatla selagi ada waktu terselit di segenap urat nadi untuk terus bernafas di muka bumi nie.. Jangan sekali2 melupakan kewujudan-Nya. Lalai dah memang lumrah manusia..tu sebab la kena beringat selalu… Bercinte2 gak..Tuhan jangan lupa.. InsyaAllah~

And………… memandangkan M.I.C saye dah call..maka terbantutlah penulisan kita pada hari ini… Nak tao lagi? Silelah gali dengan lebih lanjut secara persendirian…

Assalammualaikum! Chiao!

Love letter #11

Dear Sayang,

3 months has passed since you became my lover..
 You have never betrayed me or left me for another..
 You are my true love, and as your heart beats so does mine..
 With you I can fly, I can touch the moonlit sky..
 I can soar over every mountain, swim in every sea..
 I jump for joy inside every time you say you love me..
 I love you too my HONEY BOO, from the depths of my very heart..
 I cannot bear to be without you, Don't want us to be apart..
 And I know there have been hard times and to see you suffer, I just want to die..
 Want to see you smile forever, within your hearts content ..
 You are my one true my love, my whole heart beats for you..
 I want to hold you in my arms forever, Your my one true desire..

December's arrival..

Oyeah! Suda tiba! Even dah 5 hari berlalu...baru hari nie excited nak expose the arrivals of December! My most favourite month of a year..why3?? Sebabbbbbb...



* It's time for me to say gudbye for the rest months..
* It's the end of a year...
* Y-E-S..cube teka apakah itu... it's Year End Sales la babeh! Ouh shopping!!
* It's my baby birth month on the 3rd day of it..(no presents...just wishes..sorry sayang..better luck next year..huhu)
* It's my beloved abah and kakak birthday on 15th and 19th..
* Musim salji on Christmas eves... even xdapat nak sentuh2 salji + kutip adiah from Mr.Santa pun kat Mesia nie kan...but still suka sebab it's only on December!
* It's the time to remembering the year on any achievement through out the days, losing and finding times, and whatever...ouh december please treat me well..
* I want to leave all the pains which comes along the year..and throw it far2 away...

* And the most important thing is, it's my BIRTHDAY on 26th!!

Okeh...dats all..babai! *geez..*

Love Letter #10!

Dear sayang,

Ampun bebanyak coz i curik pic u satu..hehe..saje je nak menggedik kejap. ;p Diz time xde nak bebel panjang2..coz i kene pikior nak wat report and settle case study for supply chain..so i takot nanti i terbebel pasal inventory, distribution problem, Horizon Food Corporation, etc..etc.. kt u plak kang u gak yang pening ape yang i bebel nie..huhu.. So kali nie i juz letak poem je la.. Tu pon curik mase kt OU ritu.. Kat kedai RM5.. kat frame.. n kat...err pe lagi...lupe da.. Short one but nice.. Okeh sile la bace sendirik..huhu~

PINK woah!! I LIKE!

"My love..

Is higher than the sky above..

Is deeper than the sea..

Is stronger than the winter winds blowing through the trees..

Is richer than the honeys taste..

Is greater than the reach of time..

This is my love for you.."

p/s: I ♥ YOU!

Wish You Were Here

I can be tough
I can be strong
But with you, it's not like that at all

There's a girl
who gives a shit
behind this wall
You've just walked through it

And I remember all those crazy things you said
You left them running through my head
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here.
All those crazy things we did
Didn't think about it, just went with it
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here

Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
here, here, here
I wish you were here.
Damn, Damn, Damn
What I'd do to have you
near, near, near
I wish you were here.

I love the way you are
It's who I am, don't have to try hard
We always say, say like it is
And the truth is that I really miss

All those crazy things you said
You left them running through my head
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here.
All those crazy things we did
Didn't think about it, just went with it
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here

[Chorus:]
Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
here, here, here
I wish you were here.
Damn, Damn, Damn
What I'd do to have you
near, near, near
I wish you were here.

[Bridge:]
No, I don't wanna let go
I just wanna let you know
That I never wanna let go

(let go let go let go let go)

No, I don't wanna let go
I just wanna let you know
That I never wanna let go

(let go let go let go let go let go let go let go)

Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
here, here, here
I wish you were here (I wish you were)
Damn, Damn, Damn
What I'd do to have you
near, near, near
I wish you were here.

Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
here, here, here
I wish you were here.
Damn, Damn, Damn
What I'd do to have you
near, near, near
I wish you were here.