Signs He Is Into You.. ;)

Memule skali la kan, ade la kengkawan tanye aku, acano nak tao kalu laki tu betoi2 suke kat kite? ahah! Yela...mak kan ade banyak experience... Da mcm mak hayam pulak bunyiknye kan3?? -_-".. Okay.. Malas nak bebel lebiy... Korang2.. Sile bace ape yg tertulis tertaip di bawah...

#1: (Calling-mengalling) Bile laki shuke kat engkorang, die pastinye akan call bile die berkate2 seperti ini, "I'll call u tonight..Just wait for my call okeh.." Xkan adenye esok, luse or tulat or any excuses... Time tu gak la die akan call.. No worries..

#2: (Melepak) Die akan bawak engkorang gie melepak kat mane2 je. Keselaluannye, xde istilah ur place or his place.. Any tempat yg baru or biasanya dipenuhi orang sebab kalo ramai orang means tempat tu besttt.. If it's always your place or his, you might be in a friends with benefits relationship. Da name pun tempat melepak kan... 'Lepak' dan 'Dating' adalah satu istilah yang berlainan yer wahai kawan2ku sekalian..

#3: (Soal-menyoal) Laki tu akan selalu tanye pasal engkorang.. "How's ur day? How's ur life?" etc..etc.. 

#4: (Jemput-menjemput) He takes you out and is willing to pick you up, you don't have to drive to see him always.. Yeah..he's a man..

#5: (Friends and family) Lelaki itu akan nak sangat bawak engkorang jumpe and kenal2 ngan kengkawan and family die dan begitu jugalah sebaliknya... Just want to move on to the next step in having a real relationship.. Percayalah! Jangan nak segan2 pulak time tu okeh! Sekeh nnt..

#6: (Ayat manis) Not tryng to be a sweet talker! But puji-memuji tu pasti akan ada.. Yerp! He'll compliments you and seems proud of you seperti berkata, "U cantik sgt... Comel sgt... Montel Gebu sgt..." dan sebagainye..

#7: (Rajenkan diri) Die akan mule menjadi sangat ringan tulang dengan mengofferkan diri to help you with things, change a light bulb, look at your tires, add a quart of oil <-- Contoh sahaja okeh.. 

#8: (SMS) He will message u at random..Just to say 'Hi'..

#9: (Usik-mengusik) Lelaki itu akan menjadi sangat suke mengusik korang.. Teasing.. Sumtimes bullying.. It just to have fun.. Relationship without all these things rase macam x cukup rempah je bagi mereka.. So take it easy okeh.. Korang balas balik je if berkesempatan..;p

#10: (Rindu tahap dewa) Diorang akan sentiasa rasa nak jumpe korang padahal baru je brape minit yang lalu kua sesame.. Haha! Perkara biase la tu.. Engkorang pun same gak godik..

Dan macam-macam lagi! Nak list satu2 memang panjang.. xde kederat da haa nak menaip lagi.. So, if ade di kalangan kengkawang lelaki engkkorang yang suke kt korang or mana2 lelakilah yang buat perkara2 di atas, maknenye die ngah tangkap cintan or lebih spesifiknye ngah angau ngan engkoranglah tu.. Last but not least, nak bagitao korang 1 perkara.. Sile refer ayat2 di bawah nie yerk..

Lelaki nie ade banyak perbezaan.. So jangan samekan mereka on certain things okey.. But nak gtao gak.. Dorang ade types2 of girls in their lives. They have the 'friends with benefits.' Ini ialah jenis pompuan yang they have sex with that will never make it to girlfriend status, well because sang gadis itu settled for less and didn't demand more. Friends with benefits sangat merugikan sebab akan menyebabkan lebih banyak sakit ati dari riang ati..

Then there is the 'filler girl.' A girl they do like, but don't see themselves in a relationship with. Dorang suke kat pompuan nie akan tetapi there's something about her does not inspire him to move her to girlfriend role. She is only filling a position and giving him something to do until he finds someone more interesting.

The last girl is the 'girlfriend.' This is the one he adores and can't wait to see. This is the one you want to be. This girl has done something or there is just something about her that inspires him to take her off the market and claim her as his own. If he is into you, chances are good, he has made you his girlfriend.. Tahniah!

Okeh abes da.. Uiii penatnyeee menaipppp... Sekian, terima kasih..

Utk Ibu2 dan Bakal Ibu..hoho~

Oh my!! Nia!! Kamu preggy ke? derrr....wth.. Nie ayt kawan bertuah aku tu... Pe kess... Tanye pon xbole ke? Ishhh... Xder la.. Nie aku juz saje nk share.. Aku belom kawen lg okeh guyz... So, kejadah mende nak pregnant tetibe... Adoiiiyai... So, utk lady2 yg da menjadi mommy... Sini ad several tips for u... I google saje.. Idea nie came from seorang kawan, New Spirito(name dlm fesbuk..huhu)...

Nak jadik Ibu MITHALI? neh haa....yg artikel tu bercerabih :

Jika sebagai seorang ibu kita dapat melepasi senarai ini, insyaallah andalah ibu yang berjaya didunia dan akhirat..amin ya Allah swt.

1. Positif Terhadap Perubahan

2. Positif Terhadap Diri Sendiri

3. Positif Terhadap Kepimpinan

4. Positif Terhadap Masalah

5. Positif Terhadap Orang Lain

6. Positif Terhadap Keadaan Emosi

7. Positif Terhadap Idea Kreatif

8. Positif Terhadap Membuat Keputusan

9. Positif Terhadap Qada Dan Qadar

10. Sentiasa SABAR...SABAR...SABAR....SABAR.

N then, nie pule utk bakal2 ibu di luar sane...in otha words, tips utk wanita hamil...

*Jangan cepat merajuk

*Banyakkan membaca Al-Quran, terutamanya Surah Mariam, Surah Yusuf, Surah Luqman, Surah Yunus, Surah Ibrahim, Surah Al-Kahfi, Surah Yassin , Surah Ar-Rahman, disamping surah-surah yang lain. Insya-alah, mudah-mudahan anak kita akan cerdik,

*Jangan minum air bergas, terutamanya diawal kandungan

*Jangan suka mengata atau mengumpat

*Banyakkan berzikir tak kira masa,

*Sewaktu 0-3 bulan pertama inilah berlakunya pembentukan otak bayi. Di mana saraf-saraf dendrit akan terbentuk bagi membina NEURONS (1,000,000,000,000 trillion). Bukan sahaja minuman bergas, malahan ibu-ibu perlu menjauhkan diri daripada parking lot (underground), tempat-tempat yang sesak, stesen-stesen minyak iaitu kawasan-kawasan yang kurangnya peredaran oksigen (termasuklah minuman bergas tadi).

*Pecahkan masa makan kepada 6 bahagian. Selalunya perempuan yang mengandung tidak dapat untuk mengambil makanan yang banyak dalam satu waktu.

*Banyakkan mengambil makanan yang berkhasiat, mium susu, soya dan sebagainya.

*Banyakkan minum air sekurang-kurangkanya 8 gelas sehari.

*Berjalan sekurang-kurangnya 30 minit setiap hari.

*Lakukan senaman Kegel untuk menguatkan otot-otot rahim. Macam mana senaman ini? Bila buang air kecil cuba tahan. Begitulah bentuk senamannya. Lakukan setiap hari, mulakan dari jumlah yang kecil dan tingkatkan dari hari ke hari.

*Jika pergi ke sesuatu tempat menaiki kenderaan, mesti berhenti dan keluar berjalan-jalan selama 15 minit bagi setiap 2 jam.

*Banyakkan beribadat dan tunjukkan akhlak yang mulia.

N lagi satu, may look pelik, but it juz d way it is...nak share..fun but full wif information! heee~

Nie utk apply cuti bersalin nnt...

 sile praktis yoga...jgn wat yg pelik2 yer..huhu

Jgn la wat keje yg berat2.. tkot nnt efek kt baby..

 Gune pregnancy test if nk uji preggy or x.. jgn jumpe bomoh lak tao!

 tande2 ibu mengandung..morning sickness

 baju yg sesuai for preggo...aiyahh...lols..;))

 shower games.. haha rasanya ni untuk baby shower atau kira macam majlis sambut baby..ngahaha~

 if nk kongsi2 baju ngan preggo2 yg len...

 tips if nak bgtao mbe2 psal kehamilan...;))

nk record ke? jgn smpai pggil press suda...hoho..melampauu kauu..

 haa kau...agak2 la bile nk pack brg mse nk masok labour room tu kann...huhu

 jgn dok pikir yg bukan2 okeh....giler ganasss...

 sile minum air dgn byk okeh....

 senaman yg beragak la sket...

 sile pilih mak bidan yg bertauliah...

tolonggggg la jgn ngidam bnde yg merapik2...sian kt laki kau orang...haha!

weh ibu2 preggy..kok ye naik tren, nk mintak seat, sile wat muke manisss...jgn men hempuk org tao!

p/s: okehh...dat's it! tetibe aku rse mcm excited pulak nk mengandung! ouh TIDAKKKKK!!! hahaha!

12th Valuable Steps To Increase Self Esteem

Okeh...baru dpt idea... Care2 nk rebuild or build keyakinan dalam diri.. Baik tuk sume org.. So aku juz share okeh.. not really my own tips la kannn... Copy jekk.. Heee... Nk ikot, ikotttttt... xmo, sudaaaaaa... bace je laaaa...hehehehee~

Nie ape yg artikel tu bebelkan:

As adults, we can choose the messages we accept or reject. As Eleanor Roosevelt said, "No one can make you feel inferior without your permission."

Building high self-esteem is a process, not something you can develop overnight," says Jeffrey Keller. "Yet, I believe every person has the capacity of high self-esteem. The question is, are you ready to make a commitment to increase your self-esteem?"

If your answer is yes, here are 12 steps to get you started:

STEP ONE:

Stop comparing yourself with other people. There will always be some people who have more than you and some who have less. If you play the comparison game, you'll run into too many "opponents" you can't defeat.

STEP  TWO:

Stop putting yourself down. You can't develop high self-esteem if you repeat negative phrases about yourself and your abilities. Whether speaking about your appearances, your career, your relationships, your financial situation, or any other aspects of your life, avoid self-deprecating comments.

STEP THREE:

Accept all compliments with "thank you." Ever received a compliment and replied," Oh, it was nothing." When you reject a compliment, the message you give yourself is that you are not worthy of praise. Respond to all compliments with a simple Thank You."

STEP FOUR:

Use affirmations to enhance your self-esteem. On the back of a business card or small index card, write out a statement such as "I like and accept my self." or "I am valuable, lovable person and deserve the best in life." Carry the card with you. Repeat the statement several times during the day, especially at night before going to bed and after getting up in the morning. Whenever you say the affirmation, allow yourself to experience positive feelings about your statement.

STEP FIVE:

Take advantage of workshops, books and cassette tape programs on self-esteem. Whatever material you allow to dominate mind will eventually take root and affect your behavior. If you watch negative television programs or read newspaper reports of murders and business rip off; you will grow cynical and pessimistic. Similarly, if you read books or listen to programs, that are positive in nature, you will take on these characteristics.

STEP SIX:

Associate with positive, supportive people. When you are surrounded by negative people who constantly put you and your ideas down, your self-esteem is lowered. On the other hand, when you are accepted and encouraged, you feel better about yourself in the best possible environment to raise your self-esteem.

STEP SEVEN:

Make a list of your past successes. This doesn't necessarily have to consist of monumental accomplishments. It can include your "minor victories," like learning to skate, graduating from high school, receiving an award or promotion, reaching a business goal, etc. Read this list often. While reviewing it, close your eyes and recreate the feelings of satisfaction and joy you experienced when you first attained each success.

STEP EIGHT:
Make a list of your positive qualities. Are you honest? Unselfish? Helpful? Creative? Be generous with yourself and write down at least 20 positive qualities. Again, it's important to review this list often. Most people dwell on their inadequacies and then wonder why their life isn't working out. Start focusing on your positive traits and you'll stand a much better chance of achieving what you wish to achieve.

STEP NINE:
Start giving more. I'm not talking about money. Rather, I mean that you must begin to give more of yourself to those around your. When you do things for others, you are making a positive contribution and you begin to feel more valuable, which, in turn, lifts your spirits and raises your own self-esteem.

STEP TEN:
Get involved in work and activities you love. It's hard to feel good about yourself if your days are spent in work you despise. Self-esteem flourishes when you are engaged in work and activities that you enjoy and make you feel valuable. Even if you can't explore alternative career options at the present time, you can still devote leisure time to hobbies and activities, which you find stimulating and enjoyable.

STEP ELEVEN:

Be true to yourself. Live your own life - not the life others have decided is best for you. You'll never gain your own respect and feel good about yourself if you aren't leading the life you want to lead. If you're making decisions based on getting approval from friends and relatives, you aren't being true to yourself and your self-esteem is lowered.

STEP TWELVE:

Take action! You won't develop high self-esteem if you sit on the sidelines and back away from challenges. When you take action - regardless of the ensuing result - you feel better about yourself. When you fail to move forward because of fear and anxiety, you'll be frustrated and unhappy - and you will undoubtedly deal a damaging blow to your self-esteem.

p/s: The "real you" is a magnificent, unique being with enormous potential and capacity for experiencing love of yourself and extending love to others. As your self-esteem grows, this "real you" emerges. You begin to take more risks and not be afraid of failure; you aren't as concerned with getting approval of others; your relationships are much more rewarding; you pursue activities that bring you joy and satisfaction; and you will make a positive contribution to the world. Most importantly, high self esteem brings you peace of mind ... when you're alone, you truly appreciate the person you're with - yourself.